When we had our son, I was determined – as a forward-thinking, open-minded mother of the 21st century – to offer him both toys that were traditionally “boy” (trucks, tools) and traditionally “girl” (dolls, magic wands).
Not to say that Big B wasn’t supportive of this gender-neutral approach to play, but he did laugh and gloat more than just a little when The K Man rejected everything girly. I tried, many times, to introduce dolls – but he wasn’t having any of it. We even received a knit boy “doll” named Sonny when he was about 18 months old. Sonny now lives in Miss Q’s room – her brother was never interested.
I surrendered and let my little boy play with the things he loved most: Bob the Builder toys, his Home Depot work bench, boxes from random toys that otherwise held no interest.
So when the folks at MGA Entertainment (via Paradigm PR) offered to send me a Lalaloopsy doll for The K Man, I had my doubts. I mean, I’ve seen Lalaloopsy dolls at Toys ‘R Us – as I’m ushered swiftly through the aisles by my three-year-old Thomas the Tank Engine-loving lad to the train section – and they’re really dolls-y dolls.
I admit, while we waited for Forest Evergreen to arrive, I really whooped him up. And I never once called him a doll. I told The K Man that Forest Evergreen was a really cool lumberjack who likes maple syrup so much that he puts it on everything – even French fries. I made this last bit up; there’s nothing about French fries in the marketing materials.
THE GOOD
Forest Evergreen comes with a pet beaver. All innuendo aside, this generated one of the biggest laughs I’ve had as a parent of a talking child to date. It was perhaps day three since Forest’s arrival and The K Man was playing with him and this beaver – who wears a red toque (how Canadian of him!) – while I prepared breakfast. Mumbling some kind of narrative, he eventually called me over to where they were playing and asked, in all seriousness, holding up the beaver: “Mommy, is this Justin Beaver?” Not that I have anything against the Bieb, but we don’t subscribe to Bieber Fever in this house – no CDs to speak of, no passing videos caught on MuchMusic. So I have no idea where he would have come up with this, but suffice it to say that I laughed and laughed have re-told that story to anyone who’ll listen. And we’ve called that beaver Justin Beaver ever since.
When I asked The K Man what he liked most about Forest Evergreen, he told me: “His spiky hair. It’s really cool.” He even asked me to style his own hair like Forest’s when he takes him to preschool this week for show and tell. As an aside, I think it’s safe to assume that a toy has made it to the big time in a child’s mind when it makes the show and tell cut.
He’s a cute little guy, with lots of attention to detail. Great packaging, button eyes, a fun outfit complete with leather-look suspenders – it all works and still comes off as quite boyish.
Forest also comes with a picture of his home and personal info. It reminded me of the Cabbage Patch Kids‘ birth certificates we got when I was a kid; it helps you connect a bit more to the personality of the doll. Er, lumberjack. I have overheard lots of imaginative play using Forest’s traits – mostly about maple syrup. Even Justin Beaver likes maple syrup, you know.
THE GAFFE
Forest can’t sit up on his own. With hip joints that move, I thought he would be able to sit on a ledge or on the floor – but no go. He’s got a big noggin and I think this throws his centre of gravity way off. Not sure how a doll engineer remedies this but it would be nice for tea parties (yep, still trying to coax non-gender-specific play in this house!).
I read online that there’s a mini Forest Evergreen who comes with an axe, saw and tree stump. For $34.99 (at least in Canada), the makers of Lalaloopsy should really throw those items in with the larger product, too. If the idea is to encourage creative play, props help.
THE GEARS
4/5
So…where can you buy it?
- Toys ‘R Us
- Little Tikes
- You can also check the Lalaloopsy where to buy page
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elaine b says
of course, they need to know how to do it when they are daddy’s
Mommy Gearest says
good point!
Michelle B says
Yes girls play with any toy they want ,so can boys
Jennifer says
To be honest, I think I would have found it a little weird – right up until I had kids of my own. I may only have girls, but I really no longer see a problem with kids playing with whatever toys they like!
Mommy Gearest says
Isn’t it funny how so many of our opinions change once we have kids of our own?
Maegan Morin says
I definately think its ok for boys to play with dolls! Maybe not all the time… but I see no problem with it
Susan says
I think every child that is attracted to having a doll should be able to have one, my son calls his dolls his “little babies”.
Mommy Gearest says
So cute!
Florence C says
Yes of course it is ok for boys to play with dolls, stuff toy or whatever makes them happy.
Sarah Ahmad says
Ofcourse it is ok for boys to play with dolls. They can play with any toy their little heart desires!
Mommy Gearest says
Here, here!
Kristy says
ummm I kind of love Lalaloopsy. I bought one for my baby girl when she was like 4 months old because I wanted it for myself. She has Blossom Flowerpot, I also bought her one of the fashion packs, a party dress! haha I’m so into her! Did you know their birthday is written on their underwear?
gibberish (Julie G.) says
I definitely believe in boys playing with dolls, girls playing with trucks etc.
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Mommy Gearest says
Thx for letting me know. 🙂
David Gossett says
I think children should play with anything that makes them happy. It is usually adults that come up with silly rules. 🙂
Mommy Gearest says
Well said!
Ingrid says
My 4 year old son has a ‘baby’ that he takes everywhere with him. After trying to introduce several stuffies over the years as bonding/bedtime items (and having him mostly reject them) he simply just took a liking to this soft, pink, VERY girly doll and it’s the only toy that has stood the test of time and it’s been with him for over 2 years!
Sadly baby had a bit of a medical emergency last week when she came out of the ‘bathtub’ (washing machine) with her guts spilled everywhere. My mom saw it and shoved the stuffing back in and sewed her right up before my son could see. I was NOT ready to deal with the possibility of her meeting her demise just yet!
Mommy Gearest says
Thank goodness for grandmothers…
jessica says
boys can play with whatever they want!
Mommy Gearest says
Yes, Jessica! I totally agree. If you have a male partner (or other father figure) in the picture, does/did he feel the same way? Mine was not so much opposed necessarily but wasn’t beyond overjoyed at my persistence of trying to introduce gender-neutral toys.
Stephanie says
Totally fine for boys to play with dolls and other ‘girls’ toys! It’s all about the experience, building their imaginations and being exposed to anything/everything that is available. One of my friends 3 year old boy loves princesses .. and I’m happy to say she is very supportive of it – she does snap a few pictures here and there for the wedding day though!
Mommy Gearest says
I think that’s so great – and at three, it’s all about exploration anyway.
Erica says
I would totally get this for my son. He’s got a paternal streak in him and I would get him a matching sling like mine if he wanted to carry it on one 🙂
Mommy Gearest says
Oh – I LOVE the sling idea. So cute.